Cheers to a New Year

As the chapter of this last year closes and the unknown adventures of 2019 appear, I thought it only appropriate to take a moment and say goodbye, hello, and I’ll see you soon. 

“Goodbyes” only hurt when there is something left undone. 2018 was truly a gift. It brought opportunities to improve, challenges for growing, and closer unity with friends and loved ones. But… could there have been more? What if every moment had been used to its fullest potential and every opportunity grasped without fear. As we say goodbye to 2018 my hope for you is that you can proudly say “I made a difference this year” but also “I can do so much more”. 

“Hello” can be frightening. When introducing yourself in this new year what will you say? “Hello my name is _______ and I ___________ with my life.” Fear comes from uncertainly and uncertainty comes form not knowing where you should be. Thankfully each and everyone of us can know exactly where we are meant to be. In this very moment, and in every one to come, we are meant to be here making a difference. Therefore, my hope for you in 2019 is that you live in the moment and change the world with the time you have. 

“See you soon” brings hope for what awaits us in our future, but what happens if that future blocks our view of now? To 2020, 2021, and so, I say “see you soon, but not till I’ve accomplished my mission here and now”. My hope for you is that you do the same and face the future with hope but only because of the excitement of what today has to offer. 

You only have one life to live, but in that life you have the power to change the lives of others and effect eternity. Remember, what you do today can be used two ways. 1, on things that are bound by time and wither away. Or 2, those that last, well forever. 

So raise a glass of champagne (or bubbling fruit juice). Here’s to 2019. Here’s to eternity. 

What to Aim for in a New Year

It’s that time of year when we look back on the past 364 days and craft a plan to make the next 365 more productive, successful, and fulfilling. Your New Year’s resolutions (and the following through of these resolutions) are in a way the arrows that we shoot forth into the unknown future in hopes of hitting our desired outcome. The only problem with resolutions is that they are simply arrows, simply yours desires in motion. A hunter with mere arrows is bound to fail without a bow the launch his weapons and a target to aim true. Without your bow and target, you too will be nothing more than a well-intentioned fool thrusting your arrow into the air by your own power and without a purpose. If you truly desire to rise victor over 2019 then you, my friend, must furnish your bow and determine your target.

 

A Christmas tradition around my place is to watch It’s A Wonderful Life at least once before Christmas Eve. What I love most about this dear story is that it holds such great truth for not only the holiday season but the entire year round. George Bailey is granted the priceless gift of discovering what the world would be like without him. Up to this point though, our star had spent his life chasing after that next big shot. He dreamed of a big house, new car, and all the luxuries money could by. All this change though when he realized that what he had in his family, friends, and his ability to help others was of far greater value.

What are you chasing after? Perhaps an expensive college degree, then an elaborate house, fancy cars, and a family with children who go on to accomplish the same success? The problem with this dream is that it is attempting to fulfill your life desires with things only money can buy. If you aim for this kind of life then your year will be focused on making that next buck so you can reach your point of happiness. I have a better alternative for you.

What if your goals for the next year (and all of life for that matter) were focused on your morals, ethics, and admired traits. For example; what if your goal was to be independent, instead of simply aiming to earn a certain dollar sign? What if you said that your desire was to live a simple relaxing life that still portrays class, instead of a certain kind of car modal. What if you decided that the ability to spend time with family and friends was of utmost importance, instead of a certain number of zeros in your checking account? If these were the kind of goals that you set then two things would be different. One, you would find satisfaction in the priceless things that money can never buy. And two, you would make chooses that improved your way of life, not just your financial status. When coming to a decision, you would look at it from the perspective of how it might impact your lifestyle instead of measuring it simply by its price tag. In many cases, you will likely choose the path that leads to greater financial security but you will have come to that conclusion because it best improves your life and not your bank account. Aim for a way of life, now a dollar sign. This is your target.

 

With your target in sight and your arrows ready, you are now only lacking one thing. The power to get from where you are to where you want to be.

There is an enormous gorge called “I need money to survive” that stands between you and your dream life. In order to cross over this canyon, you will need a power strong enough to thrust you to the other side; and that power is “value”. No matter what situation you may be in and no matter the economy, if you have a skill that creates value for others then you will be able to create financial security for yourself. The way to go about creating value is to first choose a career path and then become the best at what you do. One way of going about this is to improve your abilities in your chosen field by mastering skills that are valued in any filed.

First would be your interpersonal skills. Become a leader in your workplace by improving your public speaking skills, your ability to envision the future, market yourself, teach others, create unity, and open yourself up to new ideas. No matter what your career title may be, the ability to lead is a skill that will set you apart as someone who crates above and beyond value.

Second would be your ability to express yourself through creativity. The ability to express your ideas, beliefs, and opinions to others through writing, speaking, and designs, along with the ability to take in others ideas, beliefs and opinions, are skills that will allow you present yourself and your product in the very best light.

Third would be your ability to analyze situations and create plans. If you have the skill set to be able to analyze a situation, chart out each procedure, and then eliminate any unnecessary steps, you will be able to improve not only areas in your workplace but also your entire life.

Last would be your willpower and self-control. Exercising self-control when it comes to any form of indulgence, from food, alcohol, physical fitness, or activities that bring pleasure will vastly improve your ability to effectively make a difference in your workplace. You only have one body and one life, take care of them and treat them with respect.

 

With your target in your sights and the power of value to launch your dreams into reality, you can now face this new year and every year to follow with full confidence and certainty in your future. By investing your time, money, and abilities in improving yourself and your lifestyle, you will be banking on the only thing you have complete control over; yourself. So charge this New Year with the desire to live your life for a purpose and not a dollar sign.

 

 

 

Screen Shot 2018-12-31 at 5.30.54 PM A huge shout out to this weeks inspiration, The Last Safe Investment by Bryan Franklin and Michael Ellsnerg, and to Praxis for including this book in their reading material. If you are interested in learning more about enhancing your ability to create value and improve your way of life, I strongly recommend this book as well as the Praxis Program.

 

 

 

 

 

Disney Dating​

Once upon a time, in a land that doesn’t exist, a young maiden finds herself locked in a far away tower, awaiting the arrival of her Prince Charming. The years roll by but this maiden never wavered in her faith of this unknown man of her dreams. The day finally arrives, as she looks out her balcony to see her rescuer. He storms the castle slays the dragon and takes her into his arm. After “loves true kiss”, the two ride off into the sunset, and live happily ever after….. The perfect love story (dreamy sigh)

Are you kidding me? This isn’t a love story. This is an insecure, needy girl being kidnapped by some creep who knows nothing about her other than her helpless state. Sure it makes a great bedtime story for children, unaware of the real world, but there has to be a point where we grow up. So many women are basing their standards for men and their desire for romance and marriage on Disney movies and chick-flicks. Let’s get real shall we? Snow White was a hobo taken in by seven slobby men; Cinderella was a spineless, self-promising slave; and Rapunzel was a hostage who flung herself at the first ruffian who broke into her tower. The only thing these young women have in common is their unwillingness to take control of their own lives and, their blind faith in any member of the male species.

Growing up in the “Christian, Homeschool” community, I have heard the “wait for the ONE” sermon my entire life. I like to call this notion, Disney Dating. Women such as Rebekah who waited for God to bring her the “ONE”, and Ruth who stayed with Naomi until the day Boaz chose her as his own, have been the biblical examples of how to go about pursuing a relationship with the opposite gender. “God has a special person for you”, “don’t go looking for yourself,” “have faith and be patient.”

I am now almost 20-years-old and during that time I have discovered a vital truth for all women….. God is NOT going to bring you a man! In fact, there is only one story in the entire Bible where God brings a woman to a man, and that was only because Adam and Eve had no other options. So sure, if the entire earth’s population consisted of only one guy and one girl, then by all means wait. But since there are a few more options today then there were back then, perhaps we should look to more relatable examples.

What about Rebekah though? Didn’t she wait for God to show her to Isaac? Absolutely not. Rebekah was a hard-working woman who was looking for the next opportunity for her to improve herself. Having the duty of caring for her father’s flock meant that this woman had shown herself capable and trustworthy in the agriculture field.

One day as she was working, a man came to her and asked for water. Now catch this. She didn’t run off and hide; she saw a need and she fixed it. In fact, she went above and beyond his request. After making sure that this man had enough to drink for himself, she turned and cared for his livestock. It says in Gen 24 that the servant wondered at her. Not in her beauty from afar off, but in her ability and eagerness to serve. Guess what, if Rebekah had been home waiting for her one true love to come instead of proving herself as a hard worker, she would have never been offered the opportunity to even meet Isaac. And get this; when all was said and done and the servant had decided that this maiden was indeed a woman worthy of his master, Rebecah was the one who chose to go and meet Issac. She was the one who called the shots. I know right, you don’t hear that in many Christian dating books.

What about Ruth though? I mean there is a woman who concerned herself completely with staying home and shutting out any desire to interact with men.

It is true that Ruth did choose to go with Naomi and gave up her community and family, but she did not by any means hide from the outside world. Once arriving in Bethlehem Ruth immediately found a job where she could provide for herself and Naomi. On top of that, when seeking a means of work, Ruth chose to go gather in the field of Boaz; catch this, so that she could find favor in his sight. She went to work for him so that she could meet him and hopefully catch his eye. Once she had accomplished this task, she went even a step further and actually revealed her desire for him. By uncovering his feet Ruth was, in fact, proposing to Boaz. Now there’s a girl who doesn’t wait around.

So to sum it up; Rebecah was a respected businesswoman who spent her days finding ways to help others and wasn’t afraid of hard work. Also, she made herself available so that she could prove herself through actions while also having a mind of her own and trusted her own judgment. Ruth found the means to provide for herself and Naomi while choosing to work in the field of an honorable man in hopes of gaining his attention. Then once this man’s character was revealed to her, she didn’t wait around but instead trusted her judgment and showed her desire for a relationship with him.

I don’t know about you but the message that I gather from these examples is that women should be dedicating more of their energy and time to providing for themselves and serving others then they should on waiting around for marriage and for their lives to finally begin. Also, when it comes to interactions with the opposite gender, women should be confident and put themselves in a place to showcase their hard work and abilities while also discovering the true character of a man.

I am about to state a belief that might just blow the socks of a few people but here it goes. I do not believe that there is one person out there for you. I believe that if you live a life where you are striving to become more like Christ and you surround yourself with others who are doing the same, then by all mean just choose someone. You have a race to run and if some guy happens to be running the same direction and can keep up with you then why not run together.

This is my heart’s desire and my plea to you. Stop putting your life on hold and stop expecting that some guy is going to one day save you. You are already saved by your One True Love, Jesus Christ, and He has a mission for you to fulfill. So get up off your sofa, turn off the Note Book, and make a difference. Become a woman that a man would actually want to have in his life. Or else you might just wind up with what you wish for; 7 slobby men, endless house cleaning, and really long, messy hair.

 

 

 

For more insight on this topic, I strongly recommend Mark Gungor and Jefferson Bethke teachings on dating.

The art of expressing oneself

Creative work is not a selfish act or a bid for attention on the part of the actor. It’s a gift to the world and every being in it. Don’t cheat us of your contribution. Give us what you’ve got.
– the War of Art by Steven Pressfield

An actor in his spotlight, a painter with her canvas, or a writer and their pen. These are the places were magic actually exist. The place where nothing of worth becomes something of unmeasurable value. A presentation that moves you, a work of art that speaks to you, a melody that touches your soul. This is where magic is shown forth to the world. But what happens if an artist neglects to create their work of art?

What if Micheal Angelo had kept his paintings to himself? Or perhaps Abraham Lincoln, his words of persuasion? What if Micheal Jordan never shot a hoop? What kind of world would this be if we had no music, no written or spoken words, no works of art, no physical movements such as dance and sports, performed to show forth examples of strength, determination, and beauty? What if we merely survived yet never lived. For as we have learned from the Dead Poets Society “…Medicine, Law, Business, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.”

As you continue to read this article I would ask you to do one thing. Think back to a time in your life when you felt as if you had somehow shown the world who you truly were. No matter what this activity may have been, I would ask you to hold it in your mind’s eye as together we examine what your magic truly is.

Why is your “work of art” (activity that showcases who you are) significant to you? I mean for most of us our career, so it has little to no financial worth. True, it may bring relaxation and enjoyment, but so does a cold beer and a quiet evening. What makes this activity, different from anything else? My proposal is that it allows you to express yourself. You see, it’s not about the project, it’s about the effect that the project has.
This last year I took a trip to DC. During my week there I crammed in every museum, memorial, and monument I possibly could. The trip itself was amazing but the most significant thing that I took away was not a souvenir nor a better understanding of American history, but instead the meaning of a monument. Just as a work of art, these statues were not simply showcasing a person of historical significance; they were expressing ideas, options and beliefs of real people. Lincoln’s memorial was not merely a sculpture of a bearded man but the expressed belief that all men are created equal and that equality is worth fighting and even dying for. The Roosevelt Memorial was not simply water flowing at different speeds over rocks in abstract shapes; it showed the toil of a nation and the strength of our country to overcome overwhelming obstacles. The Holocaust memorial was not simply a burning flame, but a symbol of unspeakable wrong and a plague to never allow such evil to rule again. This is the power of art. This is the power of the magic within each and every one of us.

I have never spoken to Lincoln, Roosevelt, or a WW2 holocaust survivor, yet I was able to take away their ideas, options, and beliefs by the way they were expressed through art, words, presentations, and even music.

So again, why is your work of art significant to you? If you cannot answer this question then you will be unable to use your power effectively. If you do not have an idea, option, or belief that you are passionate about sharing then your activity will become nothing more than a pastime hobby, and this world will be robbed of what you could have offered it.

When you are able to say, “this is me, this is what I believe in, and this is what I stand for” then you suddenly go from being a statistic in this world to someone who actually has the power to change it.

Why is your work of art significant to you? Because it makes a better you, and it makes a better world.

I’ll admit it, I was one of those Hunger Games adits. I read the entire series in one weekend and watched the movies in a single night. I remember hating the last half of the second book though, to the point that I  had to put it down a time or two. The character of Katniss had been my hero in the first book. She fought for what she believed in and had a passion to push her forward through each and every obstacle. But once she allowed her actions to be controlled by others and lost her burning passion, she became a pathetic excuse for what had once been a true warrior. Thankfully the third book rescued my faith in my heroine as once again a reason to fight and the passion to see it through brought back the Katniss I knew.

Though we may not be contestant in the Hunger Games, we do face the same battle. When we neglect to use our reason and passion to reach our fullest potential, we to become pathetic excuses for what could have been a true artist; what could have been a true world changer. So what is stopping you?

When you are at the edge of a cliff and you know you have to jump, standing there thinking about it is the worst thing you can possibly do. As you look down at the earth below you open the door for fear to stop you in your tracks. There will never be a point in your life where you no longer face fear. Let me repeat that. There will never be a time in your life where you no longer face fear. A valiant warrior is not a soldier who has knows no fear. That is an idiot. A valiant warrior is a soldier who’s passion is greater than his fear of death. You as an artist must have a greater passion for your art than a fear of failure.

You will never make the jump; unless you just jump! Stop thinking about it, stop waiting for a better alternative, stop procrastinating and just do it. Success will never come to you. You have to go out and make it for yourself. You will never finish your book unless you force yourself to sit down, every day, and write no matter what. You will never be able to play that piece unless you put in the countless hours of practice, practice, practice. You will never be able to run that race, win that contest, or make that difference unless you start right now and never stop. You will never succeed unless you first rise above a few, or perhaps quite a few, defeats. You are the only thing that stands between you and your success.

As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: 1 Peter 4:10

Screen-Shot-2018-12-12-at-2.23.41-PM  This weeks inspiration came from the War of Art book by Steven Pressfield. I would recommend this book to anyone in search of inspiration and the kick we all need to get us moving. Also a huge thank you to Praxis for requiring this reading. For anyone interested in kick-starting their future with real-world experience and skills, I would urge you to look into their program.

 

 

 

Why we should value the 10 Commandments, regardless of our religious beliefs

The 10 commandments. As a child, they were the first of many Sunday school lessons. Then they became the dreaded list of expectations that as teens we found we could never live up to. And finally, they followed us to our graves as the ultimate to-do list of a “perfect Christian”(exaggeration intended towards the end).

But was this truly the intent of God? Are these collections of shall and shall nots, simply meant to be a randomly selected group of orders forced upon us as humans? Or, could there be a far greater meaning to their warnings between right and wrong? I believe that a closer look will reveal a far great longing for mankind, from the very heart of God.

Observing this list form Jewish tradition, that being not a list of commandments but instead statements, can help us better understand the true intent of the one who gave them.

“And God spoke all these words saying, I am the Lord thy God which have brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage.”

When we learn the 10 commandments in the Christian culture the first “command” doesn’t appear until verse 3, skipping completely over this vital statement. Yet in these first two verses lies the very significance of the entire passage. “God spoke all these words”. If this were a list given by a mear man then the reliability would be nothing more than that of an opinion of a mear man. If someone says “thou shall not steal” then it is their opinion that one’s objects are valuable, but that does not mean that every other person will agree with them. One man’s opinion is simply one man’s opinion. Unless the command is given by a power above all men then it cannot stand as absolute truth. Whether you are Christian or Athiest, this is a concept that you should value and hope that others do the same. Regardless of your religious view, the fact that these commandments are given by God and therefore cannot be overridden by man, means that you can live a safer life. If God says “thou shall not kill, lie, steal, ect..” then that means no man who acknowledges these commands and the God who gave them, can rightfully come and take your life, belongings, or deceive you. The more people who believe in these commandments and their God-given authority, the safer and freer our world will be.

The second part of this statement ” out of the house of bondage” takes the significance of the first part and adds personal meaning. God could have introduced Himself as the Creator of the Univers, the great I Am, “Phenomenal Cosmic Powers” (Robin Williams voice indicated). Yet He instead chose the title of Rescuer from bondage. This shows the personal desire of the heart of God, that all men be free. These 10 commandments are not a list of requirements that He expects us to toe the line with, for He knows we cannot. But they are instead the guidance of a loving God as to how we are to maintain a free and stable way of life for every human.

The greatest commandment according to Christ is that we love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, and mind; and the second is like unto it, that we love our neighbor as our self. In this commandment hangs all the law and prophets.     

Love the Lord and love others. If one follows these two greatest commandments then the to-do list of the 10 commandments will simply come about as a result of their love in action. Someone who loves God will love others. What better way is there to love others than to place worship where it is due and not in objects, people or ideas that cause deviation. Love is abhorring the very idea of using the Lord’s name to justify evil. It is valuing the life of every human and beast by setting aside one day in 7 to rest from all work. It is honoring your mother in father, creating a strong family bond. It is valuing the gift of life given to every human. It is the act of faithfulness to your spouse alone, creating a safe secure family heaven. It is respecting the property of all mankind, including objects, life, and ideas. It is giving only honest and trustworthy reports. And finally,  it is exercising gratitude for one’s own blessing, not seeking the objects of another’s.

The 10 commandments are not simply a Sunday school lesson, an unaccomplishable to-do list, or a “perfect Christian” standard that will haunt you to your grave. It is a way of showing love and respect to others, creating a free world for all.

 

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If you enjoyed this post and are interested in studying the 10 Commandments further then I strongly suggest looking up Prager U’s 10 commandment informative videos at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TK57RiMqTdk&list=PLIBtb_NuIJ1y0fPzddUfOqYMav-gp1JNM

Loyalty and Subversion; the place of Christians in the political field.

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Corrupt politicians, constant dishonesty on all sides, negativity and hatred, approval of wrong, and the removal of God from education and political affairs. These are just a hand full of valid reasons why Christians would desire no part in politics. However, considering the fact that our Lord and Savior Himself chose to stand against corrupt governments, and the fact that it would be irresponsible on our part to stand by and do nothing; I stand resolved in my belief that Christians should, and must take a stance when it comes to the political choices of our great nation.

Just as in any area of life, the means by which we as Christians should determine truth is through the word of God. So what does the bible say about the role of believers in government? To answer this we will be looking at two particular areas in biblical history.

 

Babylonia: Through the book of Daniel we see the story of 4 men who have been taken into a corrupt, dishonest, hateful, society where wrong is commended and God is stricken from all areas of life. Sound familiar?

In this situation, these men find themselves presented with two choices; one, revolt and resist or two, convert and confirm. Many of their fellow Israelites chose one of these two paths, either raging war on their oppressors or becoming one with their ungodly culture. However, taking heed to the instructions given to them by God before their captivity, these men chose a far different path. That of Loyalty and Subversion; by settling down in Babalon, creating lives and actually seeking to bring blessings upon their rulers. This alternative path was one of perfect balance between the two extremes offered.

By making a life for themselves in this new land and seeking to serve this new government, these men acquired the ability to have a place of influence where they could make an impact. Yet at the same time, they refused to conform in areas that clearly went against the word of God. When faced with a burning furnace or the mouths of roaring lions, these men stood for what they knew to be right.

Jesus of Nazareth: Throughout his life here on earth, Christ taught his followers the same lifestyle instructed in the book of Daniel; love your enemies and bless them. Yet at the same time, Jesus refused to stand by when wrongs were accepted. His stance against the corruption of government ultimately led to his very death on the cross. If our Savior took a stance such as this, how could we possibly stand by and say we too are not expected to stand for right.

 

With these two examples of biblical involvement in the actions of one’s government, we as Christians should count our lucky stars that we live in a nation where the price for standing for right is simply fewer friends and not our own death. We have a gift but more than that, we have an obligation. Just as Daniel, we are commanded to take the path of Loyalty and Subversion; to love our enemies and bless them. How can we bless this nation if we remain silent and passive? How can we stand for those being mistreated or against wrongful actions if we remain seated on the sidelines watching as others of opposite beliefs and views take the main roles in shaping our nation?

Corrupt politicians, constant dishonesty on all sides, negativity and hatred, approval of wrong, and the removal of God from education and political affairs. These are just a hand full of valid reasons why Christians must take part in politics.

 

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A huge shout out to The Bible Project for the inspiration of today’s blog. For more helpful insight on areas of Christianity and the Bible, I would defiantly recommend viewing their videos and creative charts.  https://thebibleproject.com/videos/the-way-of-the-exile/ – The way of the Exile

The Journey Begins

Welcome all Kindred Spirits

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Kindred Spirits are not so scarse as I use to think. It’s splended to find out there are so many of them in this world.

-Anne Shirley

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First, let me say welcome and thank you for choosing to explore my blog. I know that there are countless other places you could spend your time, so thank you and I promise this will be interesting.

 

A little bit about myself; I am a 19-year-old Christain who’s desire is to learn about the world and make this world a better place. As I endeavor to accomplish this mission, it is my hope to create a community of fellow adventurers, to help each other uncover the mysteries of this journey we call life. If the idea of learning and having a positive influence interest you at all, then this blog is most defiantly the place for you. Welcome aboard.